Sunday, June 9, 2013

The White Tiger By Aravind Adiga

If slavery is not wrong, nothing is wrong.-- Abraham Lincoln.

Last year we Indians proudly celebrated our 60 years of Independence.We feel proud to be a citizen of  the greatest democracy in the world and our hearts swell with patriotism..We all say "Proud to be an Indian" ..But is India,a free country today ? Or all our patriotism has only confined to some world cup moments or Kargil victory moments ? "The White Tiger" is a very good answer for these questions.
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I hesitate to pick up award winning books.But Aravind Adiga's "The White Tiger" gave me a  different reading experience.It has won the prestigious Man Booker Prize for the year 2008 in fiction which depicts the corruption in India.The protagonist Balram Halwai uraf Munna,is a car driver.His character is the  reflection of every youngster below poverty line,striving for his 'right to live'.The story begins as Balram narrates a letter to the President of China,Mr.Wen Jiabao about Entrepreneurship in India.

Balram is a poor rickshaw puller's son who lives in a village called Lakshmangarh near Gaya.His thoughts are always focused on the inequalities between rich and the poor.Dropping his education in the middle,he works in a tea shop and afterwards he joins as a driver in a rich land lord in Dhanbad..Except his nice master Mr.Ashok (Stork's second son),he introduces all his masters by nicknames like Stork/ Mongoose/Buffalo.The innocent driver moves to Delhi along with his master Ashok and his wife Pinky..There he get influenced by the social and political environment in Delhi..By closely observing the darker sides of luxurious metro living, he longs for the comfortable life style of the rich..His passion to break the so called "Rooster Coop"(the servant classes) forces him to commit a crime..Finally he goes completely insane and kills his master Ashok.The journey of Balram from an innocent driver raising to a great entrepreneur in Bangalore is very interesting till the end.

The moment you recognize what is beautiful in this world,you stop being a slave.

Mr.Premier ! Fully formed fellows,after 12 years of school and 3 years of university,wear nice suits,join companies,and take orders from other men for the rest of their lives.Entrepreneurs are made from half-baked clay.

What is the use of winning a battle when you don't even know that there is a war going on ?

I don't exactly know how you organize your servants in China.But in India-or at least in the Darkness-the rich don't have drivers,cooks,barbers and tailors.They simply have servants.

"Nobody is born a criminal",Balaram's story is a good example for this fact..It also proves that situations are responsible for human behaviour.Though Balram's journey is full of struggles,he narrates his story in a witty manner.The two main characters Ashok and Balram appear to be the representatives of the two classes rich and poor respectively.Initially Ashok comes from America as a good person but the negative side of the capital city persuades him to be corrupted..On the other hand,Balram is a kind of person,who creates his own destiny.Nevertheless he reaches his destiny,but that was at the cost of Ashok's life..Balram concludes that this nightmare of crime remains there for the rest of his life.But most surprisingly,he was not guilty for what he has done.

Kill enough people and they put bronze statues to you near Parliament House in Delhi-But that is glory,and not what I am after.All I wanted was the chance to be a man-and for that,one murder was enough.

See,the poor dream all their lives of getting enough to eat and looking like rich.And what do the rich dream of ? Losing weight and looking like the poor.

Its amazing.The moment you show cash,everyone knows your language.

A  few hundred thousand rupees of someone else's money,and a lot of hard work,can make magic happen in this country. (What a satire!!)

But I ask you who built Delhi in this crazy way ? Which geniuses were responsible for making F block come after A block and House Number 69 come after House Number 12 ? Who was so busy partying and drinking English liquor and taking their Pomeranian dogs for walks and shampoos that they gave the roads names that no one could remember ?

In this novel,there was a wide discussion over the still existing roots of feudalism in India and how it is dominating the present Indian politics.Author blames the Parliamentary democracy as responsible for the corrupted society..He focuses on the corruption in all government sectors including schools,hospitals and police department etc.He says the rich came from light and the poor from dark.We boast about the development in India in every possible aspect.But the people in slums are still fighting for livelihood and common needs.Surely a criminal like Balram will born in such society to fulfill his rights.The novel successfully discloses the youth crime in India and shortcomings of the democratic society.The novel would remain as a memorable work in literature.But it surely leave the readers in a confusion,whether to feel proud about the great award winning book or to be ashamed of the subject of the book that is 'Indian Corruption'.On a whole the book is a slap on Indian democracy..

Monday, May 27, 2013

Manikaran - Himachal Pradesh

After visiting Sangla valley & Reckong peo we reached Manikaran via Rampur..Manikaran is located in Parwati Valley near the Beas river in Kullu district and is one of the popular pilgrimage center for Sikhs and Hindus.Manikaran is famous for the the Gurudwara and hot springs..There is a story related to this place,that Hindus believe that Manu recreated human life here only...The Parvati river flow in front and the steaming water pouring into it was superb.

The accommodation at Gurudwara is not that great experience..The rooms were just o.k,and  washrooms are very untidy..So better you stay outside whenever you visit this place.One must visit this place and have the sacred bath in natural hot water pool inside Gurudwara.People believe that the hot water here has a power to cure all diseases..
The Gurudwara
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The Gurudwara kitchen in the early morning...
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The hot springs..Sulphar fumes all around  
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Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Chander Pahar by Bibhutibhushan Bandopadhyay

The purpose of life varies from person to person..For some it is an entertainment,but for some it is a life long adventure..

Chander Pahar (Moon mountain in English) is a Bengali novel written by Bibhutibhushan Bandopadhyay,the author renowned for his earlier work 'Pather Panchali'..Surprisingly,the author had never  been to African forests,but he described them so well in this work..To live the life to the fullest,one should have strong bonding with nature..The best thing about the author's works is,he beautifully portraits the relationship between nature and man..The story set in the year of 1909,just 5 years before the world war I..I read the Telugu translation of the book..The book is also available in English as "The Mountain of the Moon"...

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Every human being has different outlook regarding life,by means of which he experiences the real pleasure of life..For the protagonist Shankar Roy Chowdary, life means 'adventure'..But his poverty keeps him away from exploring the world..Initially he joins in a jute mill,obeying his family's expectations on him..Meanwhile an acquaintance offers a job for him in Africa..On getting this tremendous opportunity,he moves to East Africa with many dreams in his heart..

Initially he works as a railway clerk in Uganda and later as a station master..Being a nature lover he enjoys beautiful sunrises and sunsets of the dense forests,various kinds of animals...He thought his dreams came true..After some time,the acquaintance of a Portuguese explorer,Diego Alvarez brings out the adventurous nature of the young man..Greatly persuaded by him,Shankar goes along with him in search of the diamond mines..They both start exploring the dangerous Richtersveld mountain ranges for diamond deposits..Not caring about the Bushmen's warnings that no one returned alive from the dense forest,they move forward..The two adventurers encounter dangerous Black Mambas,Lions, Hyenas and a dreadful beast called Bunyip,the guardian of the forest...When Alvarez is killed by the dangerous beast Bunyip, Shankar remains alone and miserable in the forest..But he keeps his journey on..He reaches the huge Kalahari desert..Crossing all the obstacles,whether the young man could return or not is the remaining part of the story..

The novel is not only unique and experimental but one of the best adventurous books in Bengali literature..Normally  Bengali literature is known for its highly emotional depictions but apart from that this novel also gives good narration about the geometrical details and historical events from the past..The lives of fearless railway coolies and bushmen are very motivating for the readers..Such adventurous stories help this generation to learn about the people who sacrificed their lives in the process of evolution,by crossing dangerous obstacles to give the comfortable society we are living today..

The English version is available in Flipkart here..
http://www.flipkart.com/the-mountain-of-the-moon/p/itmdytpwag9fhnps?pid=9788129118240&ref=0e4c1ec2-0ef7-4892-be02-88d4d6a34972&srno=s_1&otracker=from-search&query=moon%20mountain

Thursday, May 2, 2013

A day with 'Isha' - Isha Yoga Center,Coimbatore

We got an opportunity to bag some wonderful moments while visiting some nice places when we stayed at Coimbatore..Isha is the first one to recollect among them..Its just 30 km away and 1 hr drive from Coimbatore..The roads are very nice..Some misty mountains and coconut plantations on both sides give you a great experience of drive..

Isha Foundation, founded by Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev,is a volunteer-run, international nonprofit organization dedicated to cultivating human potential.It is operated by over 2 Million volunteers from more than 150 city-based centers spread worldwide. The headquarters,Isha Yoga Center,is located in the lush rain forest at the base of the Velliangiri mountains in south India.

At the core of the Foundation's activities is a customized system of yoga called Isha Yoga in which they teach Sambhavi Maha Mudra,a powerful kriya for deep inner transformation..I have attended one week inner Engineering classes conducted in Coimbatore and had a wonderful experience of Sambhavi Maha Mudra..Here are the few pics of Isha Yoga Centre..

For more details about Isha, please visit http://www.ishafoundation.org/

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The 13 feet Shiva Linga called as Dhyana Linga which gives us meditative space irrespective of caste and creed..Silence is maintained inside the temple..There is no such thing like puja but the temple is simply made for the purpose of Dhyana..By the way photography is not allowed inside the temple.
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The Teerthakund,where the visitors can take a holy bath before going to Dhyana Linga...
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 There is a Mercury Linga immersed in the tank..Lingam is made of solidified and 99.8% purified mercury..
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The Sadguru
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The temple premises  

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The Isha Shoppe
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Architecture is the best thing in this place...
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Sunday, March 10, 2013

Chokher Bali - Rabindranath Tagore

There is in every true woman's heart, a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity, but which kindles up and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity.-Washington Irving,The Sketch Book.

There is a sparkling fire in Binodini's heart too..But with that fire,she tried to destroy a happy household .. But when she realized that she also destroying her feminine virtues and ethics in that fire,she couldn't stand it anymore..The literal meaning of Choker Bali is "a grain of sand"..The title is very opt as the protagonist Binodini is like "a mote in the eye" in the pleasant family life of Mahendra and Asha..It is the story of love, lust and passion...

An irate queen bee stings everyone that comes in her path,and similarly an irate Binodini was prepared to destroy everyone around her.
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Coming to the story line,the central character Binodini is a young widow of exquisite beauty who lives in a small village,Barasat..She is also bestowed with intelligence and intellect..Nevertheless these great qualities couldn't provide her a blissful life because of the ruthless customs of the society against widows..Her somber life takes a turn with the arrival of her relative,the wealthy,Rajalakshmi..Rajalakshmi invites her to live with them in their house at Kolkata..Rajalakshmi's son Mahendra was unhappy with this decision,but later he persuaded by his wife Asha to to keep a good friendly relationship with Binodini...Binodini indulges herself in the domestic chores and enjoys the modern living in the fine company of Mahendra and Asha..She was allured by the most intimate details of conjugal bliss shared by Asha..

Love turns bland if not seasoned with a touch of pique,like cooking without spices..

Love needed to be rooted in life's labour,otherwise ecstasy would never be profound and enduring.

Until here,everything goes well.But women are more vulnerable to jealousy..Binodini is not an exception for this..She remembers the bitter past in her mind that she was once engaged to Mahendra but refused by him...Binodini couldn't bear an ignoramus juvenile,enjoying her part of pleasures in her place..With these adverse feelings,she starts luring Mahendra with her delicacy and charm..Of late,she realizes that,this is not love but jealousy towards Asha..But it is too late,when she knows,her true love is Bihari..Bewitched by her fake love,Mahendra was completely out of senses by then...Further,the story narrates the turmoil caused in the lives of four characters under such circumstances...

Mahendra's thoughts,
Was there a hint in this letter of an ardour - veiled yet implied, forbidden yet intimate,noxious yet delicious,offered but unrequited ? 

This play acting in a down to earth domestic chore,in a sense,rescued him from the improbable task of creating his fairy tale dream world..

Mahendra addressing Binodini,
Why did you at all engage yourself  in this game ? There is now no release for you.If we sink we sink together.

Tagore's fondness in creating his female characters is renowned.."The Feminine Individual"  Binodini is the image of the miserable widow life tormented by the heinous customs of society...Nevertheless she bags society's disgrace initially,she overcomes her flaws by turning down Bihari''s wedding proposal for her and keeps her dignity alive in society's terms..The proud Mahendra,due to his wild passion and lust for another woman,loses his honourable position as head of the family and remains remorseful for his deeds..On the other hand Bihari emerges as the man of the house with his good nature and responsible attitude..Asha latha's character represents the any common Indian woman in a family who is well known for the virtues of sacrifice and forgiveness..The loving mother Rajalakshmi's rivalry with Asha,reminds the usual mother-in-law of any family...

With a brand name as a 'Tagore's work',the novel thoroughly criticises the merciless customs and traditions of the society against widows...The novel widely discussed about the human relations,human behaviours in different aspects of life..It proves that no one is spared by emotional turbulence of life..Initially the novel was published as a serial in a magazine,Bangadarshan..Later the 300 pages book was published as a translation by Sukhendu Ray..In 2003,The movie version of the book was directed by Rituparno Ghosh with Aishwarya Roy and Prasenjit Chetterji in lead roles...

He pillories the custom of perpetual mourning on the part of widows, who were not allowed to remarry, who were consigned to seclusion and loneliness. Tagore wrote of it: "I have always regretted the ending".-From google

Saturday, March 2, 2013

The Great Expectations - Charles Dickens

A caged bird strives for freedom..To fly is it's identity..If it may have any opportunity to fly away in to the blue sky,it won't do any analysis but straight away rushes in to the sky..Isn't it ? The moment all the little bird needs is nothing but "Freedom to Fly"..

Here is one more pearl added to the garland...The Great Expectations by Charles Dickens..It is considered as the greatest work ever in the Dicken's literary journey..Starving in an unhealthy environment Pip feels miserable with his own life..One day,all of a sudden,a great fortune has been bestowed upon him which provides him with wings to fly,to fulfill his dreams..The story was set in the year 1860 which depicts the life experiences of Pip and how the immature and innocent little lad transformed as a complete individual...The protagonist Pip is the narrator of the story..

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Orphan boy Pip is victim of domestic violence by his aggressive sister Mrs.Joe..However he ill-treated by his sister,the little one receives so much love and affection from his sister's husband Mr.Joe Gargery...Mr.Joe is a black smith,very kind and noble man with whom Pip shares all his dreams and sorrows...One day Pip encounters a convict at graves..Being afraid of him,Pip forcibly steals food from house for him..This is the first time Pip really feels guilty..But Pip could not imagine this small encounter is going to impact his future in an unexpected way...


Joe's uncle,Mr.Pumblechook not only bullies Pip but he thinks of himself as a fortune-maker of the boy and  employs him in the Satis house to play with Estella,the adopted daughter of the weird and cold Miss Havisham...Pip feels miserable in presence of the beautiful and proud Estella but couldn't help admiring her..He tries to find ways to be worthy of her..

The air of completeness and superiority with which she walked at my side,and the air of youthfulness and submission with which I walked at hers ,made a contrast that I strongly felt.

Out of my thoughts ! You are part of my existence,part of myself .You have been in every line I have ever read,since I first came here,the rough common boy whose poor heart you wounded even then.You have been in every prospect I have ever seen since-On the river,On the sails of the ships,on the marshes,in the clouds,in the light,in the darkness,in the wind,in the woods,in the sea,in the streets.You have been the embodiment of every graceful fancy that my mind has ever become acquainted with.

The so ordinary life of the boy takes a fabulous turn with surprising entry of a dynamic lawyer Jaggers,when he announces him as a beneficiary of  a great fortune..But the benefactor's details were hidden from him..Assuming Miss.Havisham is his benefactor,Pip moves to London without giving a second thought of leaving behind his relations and affections..In the process of getting trained to be a Gentle Man at Mr.Mathew Pocket's,Pip and his best buddy Herbert,both fails to control their expenses and finally they  remains fully in to debts..Meanwhile a stranger enters Pip's house,introducing himself to be his benefactor,Abel Magwitch..Pip finds the stranger is none other than the old acquaintance at graves..Magwitch is a convict deported from England who actually came to repay his gratitude..Pip's dreams melts down by learning that the great fortune came over him is provided by a convict..From here on-wards the story takes so many twists and turns...

Words can not tell what a sense I had,at the same time,of the dreadful mystery that  he was to me...

Man often doesn't give much value to the things which are easily affordable for him..Pip deserts Joe and Biddy's love to gain mirage like love of Estella..But when he realizes his mistake it was too late for him..Neither he gains Estella's love nor Biddy's,for Biddy is married to Joe after Mrs.Joe's death..Though Pip shows ingratitude in Joe's case,he compensates that guilt by taking Magwitch's responsibility by serving  him in his last days..

Dear Joe,I hope you will have children to love,and that some little fellow will sit in this chimney corner of a winter night,who may remind you of another little fellow gone out of it forever.Don't tell him Joe,I was thankless:Don't tell him,Biddy,that I was ungenerous and unjust: Only tell him that I honoured you both.

The novel consists of many characters and each and every character is unique and distinctive in its own way..Few characters are like reflections of our lives.The relationship between Pip-Joe and Pip-Magwitch were greatly established in the story..Particularly Magwitch's role is quite different with antagonistic shades..There are so many unforgettable characters in the story -The most peculiar and weird Miss.Havisham who lives a miserable life in a dark chamber;the cold hearted Estella,who follows Havisham's footsteps;the powerful,cunning and  professional Jaggers;his kind assistant Wemmick;loyal friend Herbert;the real antagonists Compeyson and Orlick ..And the list goes on...

A certainly long read with nearly 500 pages,keep you completely engaged and stick you to the story line up till the end...Its a must read for classic lovers..:-)
Happy reading friends..:-)

Monday, February 18, 2013

The Old man and the Sea - Ernest Hemingway

A man’s worth is no greater than the worth of his ambitions.” ― Marcus Aurelius

Man and Ambition are always inseparable..Being ambitious by nature he always strives to be successful in his career..He is a social animal and he needs to prove himself in the society's terms..Either a businessman or a fisherman..a young man or an old man,To acquire an honorable position in the society,he must be successful in what he does.Success plays most prominent and precious role in a man's life..The story is about an old man,Santiago and his struggle to prove himself ...'The Old Man and the Sea' is a Pulitzer winning novel written by Ernest Hemingway..The work also contributed in winning him the prestigious Noble Prize..

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This is a very simple story of Santiago,the old fisher man with poor luck in Havana..A boy, Manolin,wants to learn fishing from the old man and he takes very good care of him.Santiago returns from sea without fish for 84 days in a row...But the 85th day,once again he goes into the sea with strong determination ..He says to himself, 'This is going to be my luckiest day'..

Only I have no luck any more. But who knows? Maybe today. Every day is a new day. It is better to be lucky. But I would rather be exact. Then when luck comes you are ready.

After a long but fruitful wait,a big Marlin take his bait...His small skiff could not get hold of the big fish..The fish circles around his small skiff .He uses all his strength to keep his line in control .He says the fish is his brother and all the time he keeps talking to the fish ....Two days and 2 nights passed in this manner but he kept his line strongly nevertheless suffering from wounds and spinal pain..

The old man was too tired to hold the line and there is no option left for him but to kill the fish..He ties the dead fish to the side of the skiff..Thinking about getting good price for the big fish he moves ahead  to reach the shore..In the meantime,the blood of the fish attracts a group of Sharks..The Old man kills one of the Sharks with Harpoon..Unfortunately he loses his Harpoon in this process..Finally the Sharks ate the fish leaving the huge skeleton to the skiff..The old man, completely exhausted and almost lost all his senses return to his shack..Though finally it appears to be his defeat,he actually won his battle as a Fisherman by catching the great fish ever...
Mahatma says,Man often becomes what he believes himself to be...These words very well describe Santiago's life....

His thoughts about the great fish (Marlin),
He is a great fish and I must convince him, he thought. I must never let him learn his strength nor what he could do if he made his run. If I were him I would put in everything now and go until something broke. But, thank God, they are not as intelligent as we who kill them; although they are more noble and more able

You did not kill the fish only to keep alive and to sell for food, he thought. You killed him for pride and because you are a fisherman. You loved him when he was alive and you loved him after. If you love him, it is not a sin to kill him.


He thought, everything kills everything else in some way. Fishing kills me exactly as it keeps me alive.

"But man is not made for defeat,” he said..

The story maintains a constant conflict between hope and despair...He loved and respected the sea..He talks to himself and to the fish in the darkest nights of the sea..He feels fishing is not just his profession, but it is his pride..To keep up his pride as a fisherman he fights with the Sharks till the end..He put all his body and soul in his work, to catch the fish...The readers will be surprised with the Old man's intense willpower and self motivating personality..If the Sea is considered as the world, the big fish resembles the earthly desires we long for..And his battle with the sharks in order to save the fish represents our battle with life in the process of acquiring what we want..

It is a very small book yet recommended for patient readers..Though the book carries a good message,it turns out to be boring at certain points because there is no great concept and it only revolves around the Old man,The Sea and The fish..Nothing more..On a whole, it is a quite good read for me..

The old man's thoughts about the sea,
But the old man always thought of her as feminine and as something that gave or withheld great favours  and if she did wild or wicked things it was because she could not help them. The moon affects her as it does a woman, he thought.

Imagine if each day a man must try to kill the moon, he thought. The moon runs away. But imagine if a man each day should have to try to kill the sun? We were born lucky, he thought

Monday, February 4, 2013

Chitkul,Himachal Pradesh

After visiting Sangla valley our next point was Chitkul,the untouched and remote village of Himachal Pradesh...Chitkul is the last inhabited village of India and situated at the Indo-Tibetan border..It is just 28km from Sangla valley..The quite and calm village is situated on the banks of Baspa river in Kinnaur dt...The place is wide spread with beautiful snow mountains and landscapes....We reached Chitkul around 11 am and  we spent there till evening...We choose to stay at Sangla,because of the lower end facilities in Chitkul..Also the hotels are a bit expensive here..Extremely cold climate is the primary reason for less population here (around 500)..From Sangla to Chitkul (via Rakcham) the way is simply fantastic with great scenic spots..We reached Sangla before sunset..It was a wonderful drive..

The Baspa river
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Beautiful landscapes...
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The freshly snow covered mountains
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This is the most interesting thing that caught our attention in Chitkul...The wheat flour mill..It run by water current..Free of cost..People pour wheat in the mill and then they collect flour from it...

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Hindusthan Ka Aakhree Dhaba (The last dhaba of India)
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Most of the houses are tin roofed....They look beautiful..Isn't it ??

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There is a Buddhist monastery in Chitkul....The Kagyupa temple of Buddha...
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 Tired of the site seeing...Maggie hojaaye..
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Here you can see the woman collecting wheat from the mill..
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Frozen water every where..
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The quite and calm streets scared us...We were happy whenever we spotted a person or two on the roads in such a place deserted by people....:-)
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The apple gardens...The valley is filled with four colors Blue,Yellow,Green and White..Certainly it was a great combination .:-)
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Friday, February 1, 2013

An Ideal Husband - Oscar Wilde

To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance...

This is the most phenomenal and striking definition I've ever read about ideal living...Who else can define it in such a beautiful way...Yes Oscar Wilde again..:-) Though he is a versatile writer,most of his works are plays only..'The Picture of Dorian Gray' is the only novel in his writing career..His capability of framing dialogues in a very natural way shows his hold on human behavior and mentalities..Coming to the book,'An Ideal Husband' is a good comedy..The play  is written in the backdrop of aristocratic society of  London..As usual The Irish writer targeted the London high class society..One more time I was spell bound by his witty writing style..

Oh, I love London Society! I think it has immensely improved. It is entirely composed now of beautiful idiots and brilliant lunatics. Just what Society should be.

In England a man who can’t talk morality twice a week to a large, popular, immoral audience is quite over as a serious politician
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Sir Robert Chiltern,who holds a honourable position in society,built his political career by selling a cabinet secret to a stock broker..He fears public disgrace when the proof of his corruption fell in hands of  Mrs.Cheveley...She starts blackmailing him and forces him to act in her favour for  her political gain..Mrs.Chiltern,The sensible wife of Sir Robert who admires him for his stainless character was shocked to know about this scandal..Sir Lord Goring,best friend of Robert takes the charge to save his friend..Finally Robert got saved from the disgrace with few dramatic consequences...

Even you are not rich enough, Sir Robert, to buy back your past. No man is.

Wilde explained few principles of  'successful marriage' and expectations of man and woman in a relationship..He says,men often need forgiveness and love and hence It is the utmost responsibility of  women to provide them these two..By taking man's side he quoted,woman's life is not as important as man's..My favourite character is none other than Mr.Goring,the most eligible bachelor with confused thoughts about marriage..Perhaps Wilde tried to put his heart and soul in this character..

I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book..Of course Its always fun reading Oscar Wilde's...:-)
Here are few lines from the book..I wish I could add few more quotes..But it is going to be a never ending list when it comes to Oscar Wilde...

Sir Robert's agony,
Women think that they are making ideals of men. What they are making of us are false idols merely. You made your false idol of me, and I had not the courage to come down, show you my wounds, tell you my weaknesses. I was afraid that I might lose your love..

I don't know that women are always rewarded for being charming. I think they are usually punished for it!

Men can be analysed, women . . . merely adored.

I love talking about nothing, father. It is the only thing I know anything about

I adore political parties. They are the only place left to us where people don’t talk politics.

I like looking at geniuses, and listening to beautiful people.

Oh, I like tedious, practical subjects. What I don’t like are tedious, practical people. There is a wide difference.

I always pass on good advice.It is the only thing to do with it. It is never of any use to oneself.

when the gods wish to punish us they answer our prayers.

Life is never fair...And perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not."

Wonderful woman, Lady Markby, isn’t she? Talks more and says less than anybody I ever met

Morality is simply the attitude we adopt towards people whom we personally dislike

Lord Goring. Mabel, do be serious. Please be serious.
Mabel Chiltern. Ah! that is the sort of thing a man always says to a girl before he has been married to her. He never says it afterwards

A man’s life is of more value than a woman’s. It has larger issues,wider scope, greater ambitions. A woman’s life revolves in curves of emotions. It is upon lines of intellect that a man’s life progresses.

Bottomline : 'To err' is Men's right..'To forgive' is women's duty....:P

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Rohtang Pass - The snow experience

We visited Rohtang pass in the first week of November...The fully snow covered pass on the Leh national high way is at 13,000 Ft. in Eastern Pir Panjal range of Himalayas...Easily reachable from Manali by road (52 kms)..You can hire a Cab to reach there,but make sure you start in the early hours lest there is a possibility of getting struck in the traffic on the dangerous Ghat road...We hired snow suits on the way to Rohtang pass...There are hundreds of shops in Manali on this purpose..We can choose them as per fitting..For kids also they have various suits depending on age...Rohtang pass is open from May-November depending upon the climatic conditions...Only Himachal vehicles are allowed here,if you go by your own vehicle,you need to hire a local cab to go there..We spent nearly 3 hours there,and returned before evening...

The Snow riders waiting for travelers...They charged 800 per couple to take us a bit nearer to the snow area..However Mules and Horses were there to hire..... 
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We are lucky,that day was a Sunny day..The friendly climate allowed us to stay there a bit longer..Above all,we had a good cup of coffee..:-)

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Himachal Baby..:-)
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Look at the vehicles..They look like toys..Isn't it ? Naturally getting down the pass will take a while because of the traffic....
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Initially when you reach the spot,this is exactly what you see...You need to hire a horse or snow bike to reach the place where you have actual snow experience...
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The frozen water fall
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A Para glider from Solang valley... 
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A Shop keeper preparing Maggie for travelers..Besides few beverages,Maggie is the only eatable thing available there..:-)

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Frozen....
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